
Before launching into the new decade and contemplating New Year's resolutions, I've been thinking about the year that's almost over. Here's a snapshot of 2009:
The Good:
1. Going to the Gym.
In June I visited the doctor for an annual checkup. On leaving, the dr. recommended I reward myself with something "nice". On my way home, I spontaneously stopped at the gym and signed up with a personal trainer for 3 x 30 minute sessions per week. Ok - that's not exactly "nice", but becoming a gym bunny has changed my life. I am now pain-free when studying and I'm wearing the type of clothes that I haven't touched for years.
2. It's all Greek for me!
In recent years I struggled a lot with the personality-driven art history department at my university, so in 2009 I switched departments. In entering the Classics department, a new love was borne. Greek history, Greek art, Greek philosophy and Greek religion - I love it all!
3. Tennis.
As a bit of a social hermit, it was a big step to join the local tennis club and play competition tennis. Through tennis I've met so many wonderful people. I heartily recommend joining a sporting group!
4. The Teaching Company.
This organisation commission the top U.S. lecturers to give talks on topics as diverse as philosophy, history and fine art. They are a wonderful to listen to when mosaicing or travelling.
They won't appeal to everyone, but I love them!
Here's the link:
http://www.teach12.com:80/teach12.aspx?ai=30315&cm_mmc=Google-_-Search-_-na-_-na
5. Sharing in my children's achievements.
I know it's corny, but when they achieve I feel as though I do too! For years I've told my sons that it's not about how bright you are, but how hard you work. This year, they worked hard and achieved highly. I'm so proud!
The Bad:
1. Loss.
The year started with the sudden loss of a close friend, and it continued that way with a cousin and a friend's wife. Cancer seems like Russian roulette, and there's no magic formula to avoid it.
2. Break-ups
I suppose it's another form of "loss", but I am always saddened to hear of break-ups. Last weekend friends came to stay. We had a great time, and we made plans to go to Istanbul in 2011. The next day, my friend phoned to say they had broken-up. What? How does that happen? How can everything go askew in 24 hours?
The Ugly:
1. Nursing Homes.
I learnt all about nursing homes this year, and they're darn right ugly! My Dad's nursing home is not physically ugly - it's just so terribly sad that this state of living is a real chapter at the end of so many people's lives.
On my last visit on Monday, an elderly lady - with tears running down her face - beseeched me to give her a hug. She was hugging her dolly, and when I hugged her I was shocked by how terribly cold she was.
Every time I visit Dad, I want to whisk him away.
I'm not sure what 2010 will bring - but it's probably more of the good, the bad and the ugly!
If you're reading this, I send you love and best wishes for the next decade.





